The honest question
“I could do this with a spreadsheet, Venmo, and email.”
You could. Many directors do. The honest question isn’t whether you can — it’s why the hours of your one life should go there. You became a spiritual director to sit with people in the presence of God, not to reconcile a payments spreadsheet at eleven at night.
The arithmetic of your hour
Directors in our community typically charge around $70 a session. That number is what your hour is worth — and it prices everything else you do with one:
- An hour spent chasing a payment, updating a spreadsheet, or hand-writing a receipt costs you a session’s worth of your time.
- Six or seven hours reconstructing a year of income at tax time costs half a week of sessions.
- The Solo plan ($25/month) costs about a third of one session. The Professional plan ($49/month) costs less than one. If Directee returns you a single hour a month, it has already paid for itself.
This isn’t an expense that competes with your practice. It’s the cheapest hour you’ll buy back all month.
What the spreadsheet actually costs
The spreadsheet system works — right up until it quietly doesn’t. Payments land in three apps and a memory. Notes live in a drawer, a doc, and two notebooks. Nobody sends receipts. The year-end accounting becomes an archaeology project. None of that is a moral failing; it’s what happens when a vocation grows past the tools it started with. Professionalizing the practice isn’t about becoming corporate — it’s about honoring the work, and the people who trust you with it, with the same care you bring to the hour itself.
What Directee does with those hours today
- Your calendar becomes your practice
- Connect Cal.com once and every booking, reschedule, and cancellation becomes an appointment matched to the right directee — with free built-in video conferencing if you want it.
- Notes where they belong
- Quick note-taking with templates and prompts, filed with the directee they belong to, visible to you alone. Not a document folder you have to keep honest.
- Invoices that send and settle themselves
- Stripe-backed invoices and payment links on your rhythm — per session, monthly, retainer — reconciled when paid, receipts your directees can keep for their own records.
- Tax season, already done
- Income, expenses, and a profit-and-loss view aggregate all year. The six or seven hours you spend every spring reconstructing scraps of paper simply stop existing.
- One message to everyone
- Broadcast email to your whole practice — schedule changes, retreat announcements, a pastoral word — without BCC gymnastics.
- Documents kept, not scattered
- Covenants, intake forms, shared readings — stored with the person, not on a desktop.
Where this is going
Directee is built alongside working directors, and the road map comes from their practices, not a product brainstorm. Coming to the platform:
- Forward a receipt, and it’s recorded
- Payment came through Venmo, PayPal, or e-transfer? Forward the receipt email to your Directee address and it gets captured, matched, and recorded — one less scrap of paper at tax time.
- Bring whichever calendar you use
- Google Calendar, Outlook, and Zoho integrations are on the road — bring your tool, and Directee builds your practice view around it.
- Guided directee onboarding
- Send one link to a prospective directee: the paperwork gets created, tracked, and checked off — including a fit-conversation session you can charge partially or credit toward their first month.
- Session and invoice reminders
- Gentle nudges to directees about upcoming sessions and open invoices, so you never have to be the one who asks twice.
More than software
You’re not buying a tool. You’re joining a practice.
Directee is shaped daily by Suhail Stephen — spiritual director and supervisor, founder and director of the School of Mercy and Justice, teacher in Sustainable Faith’s School of Spiritual Direction, pastor of West End Abbey (a contemplative church in Winnipeg), and co-host of the Listen with Love podcast on spiritual direction. He carries one of the fullest practices we know, and he moved it onto Directee first: the templates, the prompts, the rhythms you’ll find inside exist because his practice needed them. Alongside the product: articles on the business of direction, cohorts and trainings as they open, and a growing community of directors exchanging what works.
There is no other purpose-built tool for spiritual direction. Everything else asks you to squint at a therapy chart or a sales pipeline until it looks like your vocation. Directee starts from the vocation.
28 days of every feature, no credit card to start. Ministry and hardship pricing on request.